Most people dont even see...or want to see when they are in too deep....

What a beautiful evening for a jog….I was thinking about a block and a half into my usual route.

At this point I was walking through a park when I came across a couple in that appeared to be in their mid 20s or so…fighting….yelling…making quite the scene for a peaceful public place.

As I approached the man looked at me and looked embarrassed. I looked at the woman and said “are you ok?” ya know…just kind of a woman watching out for women in sisterly love kind of thing…and she didn’t even acknowledge me.

And I find this a lot amongst people today…

Most people don’t see when their relationship is heading for disaster. They don’t realize its a drain on

their energy and disrespectful to their soul.

And understandably so, when we rely on others for survival and the need for connection. But you have to ask yourself every now and again…..

What is holding on to a crappy relationship really doing for you?

What is it doing for the other person?

The very nature of the codependent relationship is holding onto and trying to fix something that can’t be fixed. It is the sexiest and most romantic version of enabling and often to the detriment of our own energy and well-being.

So why do we hold onto relationships like these?

Fear.

Trauma Bonding.

Emotional wounds from the past ie childhood or adolescence.

Learned behaviors and conditioned responses from family, friends, culture, religion…etc.

Now who wants to be in a relationship like that? Surely not me….

But once upon a time….this was me.

And maybe that’s why it struck me in such a way…because back when it was me….it was normal.

It was not ok. But it was normal. Though incredibly uncomfortable…it was a comfort zone.

And this is usually how it goes.

We don’t see it until we see it.

And when we do see it, many times we feel like we’re in way too deep to really do anything about it….

So we keep. On. Trying.

And trying.

And trying.

And forgiving.

And letting go.

And forcing ourselves to have a better attitude and to have more gratitude when everything inside our soul is screaming to run and hide…

and we find all kinds of coping mechanisms to numb the feelings away, dissociate from the body, or spiritually bypass every negative thought….

Until you wake up. And realize that what you’re doing is so unhealthy that it is literally killing you.

When we have these types of relationships it literally creates blockages within the energetic body (ie the chakras) from the energies that are not friendly to your souls desires. Desperate for your attention and healing they will manifest into all kinds of physical problems from sore joints, to diabetes, liver dysfunction, body dysmorphia, fibromyalgia….the list goes on.

And on.

All physical ailments have an energetic (emotional—emotions are energy in motion) root. And if an oz of prevention is worth a pound of a cure then emotional health and healing is key to a healthy and vibrant life.

So the question is…how does healing the energy help get us out of these situation? And my friend I am here to tell you that what I learned…and how I was able to get out of the loops and cycles of codependency that was always ripping me apart from the inside out.…that

When something is so big that you don’t even know where to start, energy healing is where you start.

One simple step at a time. We can heal your emotional body. We can communicate with your highest being. We can tune you back into your body….

And we can set you. Free.

XX

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